Body Language Flirting

Today we will discuss reading flirting body language. We’ll find out if your potential love interest is trying to communicate her feelings via body language.

Flirting by means of the face:

One of the easiest ways to tell if someone is being flirty is by reading their facial expressions. Some of the common ways to flirt include; biting of the lower lip, rising the eyebrow as if to show interest, maintaining slight eye contact only to look away when being caught, and so on.

Playful body language:

Aside from facial expressions, there are plenty of other ways to tell if someone is being flirty with you. The next time you see her, see if she goes out of her way to make physical contact with you. Does she get inside your comfort zone? Does she tickle or playfully punch you when you make a joke?

If someone is within your comfort zone, you can generally tell if it’s in a positive or negative way. Tickling and playful punches for our purposes, would fall in the positive category.

Dress attire:

While not necessarily body language, the way someone dresses around you can also help you determine if someone is being flirty. Does she dress differently when you two are alone? Does it seem as if she is trying to impress you?

Matching energies:

Let’s face it, sometimes being alone with someone can be a bit awkward. This is not the case if the person you are with is sending the same vibe or energy as you. Awkward situations only occur when both your energies are clashing. Keep on eye on the vibe in the room the next time you see her.

The techniques mentioned above are simple ways to tell if someone is flirting with you. Keep in mind that some people are natural flirts. When someone flirts with you, it doesn’t mean that they want to be in a relationship with you.

Life is all about action and reaction. If you find that someone is flirting with you (the action), decide whether you will flirt back, ignore it, or attempt to build something stronger (the reaction).

Body Language Flirting Techniques. As you know from my previous post, your body language speaks volumes. Today we will discuss how to use this to your advantage.

These body language flirting techniques may seem basic but trust me, they get the job done.

Make eye contact:

At first this may seem like quite a challenge especially if you are shy like I am, but you must overcome this at all costs. Not only does this show respect, but it shows that you are interested in what she is saying.

Your face is a road-map:

When in a conversation a lot can be said through facial expressions. To show you are interested subtle facial expressions do the trick. Things like licking your lips, biting your lower lip, raising one eye brow, a sparkle in your eye and even a warm smile are all simple ways to show you are interested.

Keep an eye on your posture:

To show a girl you like her keep your posture straight. This not only makes you look taller but it also exudes confidence. If a girl sees that you are confident that is very attractive!

Relax your body:

Nothing says not interested more than crossing your arms and looking away constantly. Being tense during a conversation creates awkward situations. Avoid this by keeping the conversation interesting and finding ways to end a conversation if it is going no where.

Match her energy:

To make situations as comfortable as possible pay attention to her “energy.” In other words mirror her body language. This subconsciously creates a relaxing environment.
The main purpose

of these body language techniques is to seem appealing to the girl you desire. If you haven’t noticed by now, the key thing that all these techniques emphasize is, Confidence.

When you first begin to implement these techniques, they may seem challenging and ineffective. As you continue you will not only notice that you are more confident, but more women will begin to pay attention to you.

There are many ways to tell someone you are interested in them. And you do not need to verbally tell them. A lot can be said about a persons body language. In fact, without the right body language you risk losing your girl of interest before you even speak your first word.
Below are things to consider with body language.

Look at her eyes

Simple eye contact can go along way to show interest. Flirting using eye contact is fairly simple. She will know you are interested if you have a slight sparkle in your eye. That shows that you are very interested.

Another thing to look for is to look at someone only to get caught and look away. If you look back once you are caught, it gives a cue to the other person that you are interested.

Your facial expressions speak volumes

When in a conversation with someone a simple smile can mean that they are interested in you. For example if your interested party keeps smiling for no aparent reason, they are interested in you. To subconsciously raise an eye brow is also known to be a flirting sign.

Slight and subtle touching

Nothing says heavy flirting better than invading someone’s personal space. Light brushing on the shoulders to friendly punches are all known to be signs of flirting.

How men and women are different

Women are known to visibly show stronger signs of flirting. This can be anything from constantly playing with her hair, biting her lower lip, licking her lips and even love taps.

Men on the other hand turn to the alpha role to attract women. They want to show that they are in charge, have broad shoulders and stand tall. They will try to appear as leaders to impress their potential mate.

How to read signs of attraction

Attraction is present when you start noticing these signs: prolonged aye contact, raising of eyebrows, smiling back, laughing with you, leaning, being closer than normal, similar energy in body language, touching, preening, and the like. If you received these signs, it means there is a big possibility that you could take your interaction to a higher level.

How to read that you are in the red zone Get Away!

It can be tough to gauge whether someone is interested in you or not. Generally if they are not keeping eye contact, are not interested in what you have to say, and their facial expressions are neutral, then they are not interested in you.

Once you learn to detect signs of attraction in body language, it is then up to you to decide to take your flirting further or not. Remember that just because someone is flirting with you does not mean that you will score yourself a date. There are many factors that come into play in successful dating, body language is just one of them.

This blog will cover every thing related to body language and the art of attraction through body language. Enjoy!